I think I had a conversation about this with a friend before. My answer was no. My love will not lessen, however my focus will. I’m currently in a relationship right now and I haven’t really devoted my all to this fandom but this doesn’t mean I love sehun (and luhan) any less. It’s kind of similar to how I have the tendency to disappear due to my studies (and heavy workload). Just because I disappear doesn’t mean those two are gone from my mind completely. I still wish them well. I simply just do not have the time to be a consistent blogger (I’m trying to make a more consistent queue though). 

tl;dr: blogging 24/7 about sehun and luhan =/= more love on my part (it’s different from case to case of course)